viernes, 3 de marzo de 2017

Next time, remind me not to accept dinner as a date

 Hi girl
 Otherwise how was dinner? Curiosity is killing me😜                       

Girl                     
I forgot to tell you about sunday dinner   

It was quiet                    
We didn't stay until so late  since we both had to get up early
We were just talking and it didn't happen anything else.                      

 I asked and you didn't say anything about it hence I concluded you didn't wanna talk about it.
Do you feel anything for him? Don't waste time with him if you don't feel a thing for him...Lol.  You can be friends if he is a nice guy. Sometimes we never know what might come out from this thing we call friendship. Also if he is an attractive guy, keep him...😜. I know you wouldn't have agreed to go out for dinner with him if he was an ugly ducklin
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😂.  

 I was busy yesterday                        
But indeed not too much to talk                         
it was just a normal conversation              
He is attractive guy. He was texting me the day after and the following day. Normal coversation... but I know he wants to keep in touch.
I was feeling not that well... Not guilty but kind of bad for not being nicer to him.                        I don't know if I should message him to explain what is my point of view. He has all the qualities I am expecting from a guy but Im not feeling there is enough chemistry between us.


  Oh nooo...You should explain it to him. He is going  to think that you are playing "hard-to-get"

I guess so😰                        
 I don't know how even to start                        
Playing "hard -to-get"... What you mean?                        
More or less I understand but I would like to know your opinion
                      
 Tell him the truth, he deserves to hear it. He seems to be a nice guy according to how you describe him. I think he is romantic too. He already asked you out for dinner! A lot of guys won't care to do that.                      
[21:50, 3/2/2017] Balogi: Tell him you were not in your best moment the other day and you hope you didn't bore him. He will start talking and you will take it from there.        
             
He is a nice guy, thats why I was thinking about to explain it... 
Normally I dont do that with any guy                        
 I don't get used to      😰  
                  
To play hard to get means to make another person feel that you are not interested in them in order to make them want you more, or beg.                        
We had a nice conversation that day... there was funny moments and we were laughing a lot... I know he was expecting a kiss or maybe I was sending more messages to him after that... I was responding but as a normal friend and not so many messages 
                       
 If he is a nice guy go for it. It is not easy to find a nice and honest guy. Maybe this one is genuine and you can rely on him.                        
 😂😂😂You should have given him a kiss. That means nothing, more especially that you are not in a serious relationship at the moment. C'mon you are very single. Kindly offer those kisses to those who need them. Please don't be selfish!😂 

                     
 So I can't really say I was weird that night or whatever.
Yes... but it notices when I don't have passion, can't continue with it.                        

It was because he is from internations and I don't hurt him                        
If I were kiss him... now it would be worse situation                        
Thanks God I didn't                        
 I mean I don't want him to hurt him
                   
 Hahaha some guy respect women so much. A kiss wouldn't have gotten him that crazy.                        
 I noticed him... taking it so seriously                      

 C'mon chica, you don't have to save those kisses for no reason. You can hurt someone by anything. That shouldn't even cross your mind because you and him haven't gone far. Try to concentrate on what you want. I tell you, some guys are more understanding that we think. Be honest with him and he will understand what you want.                      
                  
since I was being so difficult to meet                       
 I know  🙄    

                
 🤣🤣                      
 Por favor...You were playing hard to get already! Why would you make him suffer a little by hesitating to meet him?                      

I have always put things complicated                      

Hahaha welcome his ardency, chica                       

Just like clothes, I always wanna try something to see if it fits me, so I urge you to try something with him and see if it works. A kiss is not a terrible thing to do. Maybe he is a bad kisser and you won't even know!  
                    
Maybe I just want things going slow...   guys never understand me.                        
Yes.. you are right    
               
 Yes you sure do! But at this point you don't have to take things slowly because you are not a teenager. You have much experience when it comes to relationships, therefore I think you better be straightforward and tell your encounter what you want. I am sure he apprehends what he is getting himself into. He is not a teenager too. I don't believe in taking things slowly when I am head over heels in love with someone. Another girl might come, without wasting time and snatch him.                         
 The thing is you take your precious time to analyze guys, which I find it amazingly wise but, you might miss the chance. Some people give up easily.                      
True                        
But with this guy there is not chemistry either                        
So I will let things like that                      

Aaah! Yep, sometimes that's how it is. Just try to be nice with him so that he doesn't walk away.                        
People like that are for keeps! Unlike these stupid guys who are always pretending in order to steal a chichi.                         😂                      
 Just remind me next time, not to accept a dinner as a date                                             :  
D'you mean the phrase above?                         
Next time should be at the end of the sentence.                      
 Just remind me not to accept a dinner as a date next time                        
Thank you                      
 You are welcome dear😘                      
 😘                      
One question... this guy didn't say to me anything about me or any kind of relationship before... so dont know if it is a good idea.... just say that without coming into account                        
 What do u think?  

Be straightforward with him. He has to make everything clear. It is the right moment to ask him now because it might be difficult to do so later. Use this opportunity to fire questions unto him. It will not only help you but also to help him open up to you. Maybe he is afraid to tell you because you are not asking or that he doesn't know where to start.

Ok girl, I will figure it out to do it tomorrow

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